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23: Why your teen isn't listening or opening up to you

Getting your teen to listen, engage, and actually hear what you’re saying can feel like an uphill battle. If conversations turn into one-word answers, excuses, or complete shutdowns, there’s a reason behind it—and a way to turn things around.

In this episode, I break down:
✔️ Four surprising reasons your teen might be tuning you out
✔️ How your own reactions and self-talk impact their willingness to open up
✔️ Small but powerful shifts that make communication easier and more effective

If you’ve been struggling to break through the walls your teen has put up, this episode is packed with insights to help you rebuild trust, improve conversations, and create a stronger connection. 

Timestamps:

[00:42] - The Power of Confident and Connected Parenting
[02:36] - Why Your Teen Might Not Be Listening to You
[03:11] - The Role of Autonomy in Teen Behavior
[04:18] - The Impact of Judgment on Communication
[04:44] - The Connection Between Self-Judgment and Broken Trust
[06:22] - When Teens Withhold Information to Protect You
[06:55] - The Four Common Reasons Teens Shut You Out
[07:53] - Understanding That All Behavior is Communication
[08:15] - Quick Actions to Repair Communication
[10:33] - Never Underestimate Your Power as a Parent

📌 FREE CLASS: Confident & Connected – Learn the biggest mistakes parents make and my 4-part framework to help your teen listen, engage, and build trust with you. Join NOW 🔗 https://www.theteenageguide.com/class
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