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For the parent who's done the work—
but still feels alone in the hardest moments.

Welcome to the THRIVE Membership: your sacred space for guidance, growth, and genuine connection.
Monthly coaching. A shame-free community. And, the tools to navigate the teen years with confidence, calm, and clarity.

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TRANSFORM YOUR LIVES

for good with THRIVE

There are 4 essential areas parents, tweens, and teens actually need to focus on if you want a strong relationship and to build skills that foster confidence, independence, and connection for both of you.

Read on to see how you can remove the stress out of day-to-day life, and build an unbreakable bond and essentials skills with your t(w)een using the step-by-step framework inside THRIVE without wasting precious time, energy, or money.

MORE THAN A MEMBERSHIP 

THRIVE is the ultimate parenting support system

you’ve been searching for as you're sandwiched in mid-life, the teen years, and aging elders. Every month, you’ll be resourced through the real challenges of parenting teens—without shame or overwhelm.

EVERY 30-DAYS INSIDE THRIVE YOU'LL EXPERIENCE

  • Live Bi-Weekly Parent Coaching with Ashley
    Personalized answers, real-time support, and powerful micro-shifts—so you leave every call clearer, calmer, and more connected.

  • Monday–Friday Q&A + Support in Our Private, Off-Social Community
    No noise. No comparison. Just grounded guidance from Ashley and like-minded THRIVERS walking the same road.

  • On-the-Go Access to Your Soul-to-Systems Toolkit
    Self-paced trainings that blend neuroscience, nervous-system work, and step-by-step strategies you can apply today. Think: grounded, actionable guidance in your back pocket.

  • New Monthly Resources, Templates & Tools
    Parenting is evolving. So is THRIVE. Each month, receive fresh tools to support your growth and your teen’s—without adding to your plate.

WHAT YOU GET INSIDE Part 1 of THRIVE

[The Soil]

Cultivate the inner foundation your teen—and you—can grow from.

Before we talk about how to respond to your teen, we start with what’s underneath:
You.

In this opening module, you’ll:

  • Clarify your parenting WHY and define your evolving ROLE in your t(w)een’s life.

  • Build your inner ecosystem through the 3 Self-Skills every grounded parent must embody:

    • Self-Awareness – so you parent from presence, not projection.

    • Self-Regulation – so your nervous system leads, not your reactivity.

    • Self-Compassion – so you stop shaming yourself for being human.

When these skills become your default—not just ideals—you become the safe, stable foundation your t(w)een needs.

This is where THRIVE truly begins.
From the inside out.

PART 2

[The Roots]

Build an unshakable bond—one that lasts through every storm, shift, and season.

When your teen begins to pull away, most parents panic.
But distance isn’t the problem—disconnection is.

In Part Two of THRIVE, you’ll learn how to meet your teen where they are developmentally, emotionally, and neurologically—so you can stay connected, even when they need space.

Inside this module, you’ll master:

🌿 Understanding Your Teen's Inner World
→ Brain changes. Identity formation. Nervous system shifts.
This isn't just insight—it’s the emotional decoding key you’ve been missing.

🌿 The RELATE Method
→ A deep dive into the 6 Pillars of unbreakable connection, built to strengthen trust, repair ruptures, and keep your teen anchored in your relationship for life.

🌿 Guiding Through Separation
→ Discover how to stay close while letting go. You’ll stop taking their pushback personally—and start leading with grounded grace.

This is the work that protects your relationship
not just through the teen years—but far, far beyond.

PART 3

[The Branches]

Practical tools. Powerful shifts. Skills that serve for a lifetime.

This is where soul meets system—and where you get real answers for real moments.

Inside The Branches, you’ll access my on-the-go Soul-to-Systems Toolkit:
Over 100+ resources including audios, videos, workbooks, and micro-trainings for you and your teen.

These tools are here when the conversation gets hard, the schedule gets tight, or you’re just not sure what to say or do next.

Inside this module, you’ll build:

The RELATE Method (Skill-Building Edition)
→ Go beyond theory. Learn how to apply RELATE in any moment—conflict, shutdown, rupture, repair.
Master the everyday tools of emotional connection and healthy relating.

The SYSTEM Method
→ A holistic, plug-and-play skill-building framework for:

  • Emotional regulation (for both of you)

  • Executive functioning & time management

  • Social confidence & communication tools

  • Mindset, mindfulness, and identity support, and more

These aren’t strategies that collect dust.
They’re the everyday skills that grow capacity, restore peace, and reconnect you to what matters.

Because when your teen is struggling—you’ll have a plan. And when you’re spiraling—you’ll have a path back to center.

PART 4

[The Leaves]

The moment it all clicks—this is where integration becomes transformation.

In Part Four, we bring together the inner work, the connection tools, and the skills framework—so you can confidently parent through challenges with presence and power.

No more guessing.
No more reacting.
Just a clear, grounded path forward—for you and your teen.

Inside this module, you’ll learn:

🍂 How to Lead with Confidence, Not Control
→ The practical Challenge Mountain framework for approaching hard moments with clarity—without losing yourself or your connection.

🍂 How to Solve Real Challenges Together
→ Step-by-step support to approach, guide, and co-create solutions with your teen—instead of spiraling into power struggles or shame.

Plus: Your Full Library of Teenage Guides

Immediately, you’ll receive 10 guides (with videos + workbooks) to walk you through exactly how to navigate:

✔️ Low Confidence
✔️ Low Motivation
✔️ Disrespect & Defiance
✔️ Emotional Breakdowns
✔️ School & Screen Stress
✔️ Social Struggles
✔️ Lying, Withdrawing, Hiding

Each guide is built to help you respond—not react—and rebuild trust, skill, and connection in the moments that matter most.

This is where your work blooms—
into the kind of parenting that supports your teen and sustains your soul.

With Results Like These:

“Practical, step-by-step parent coaching that works!”

"I found THRIVE as my kids were getting ready to enter middle school. I wanted to learn as much as possible about how to parent during the tween/teen ages, and I could already feel stress and resentment building. My teen years were terrible, and I wanted something very different for my own family. THRIVE is incredible! Ashley meets you exactly where you are, and she has practical, step-by-step coaching that works! The self-paced portion was so helpful and I continue to access it all the time! I love the toolkit, and the Teenage Guides are invaluable. I'm so glad I didn't waste time struggling! My kids and I are already closer because of THRIVE. Thank you, thank you, Ashley!" 

~ Britt Brome, mom of 2

“Our connection has never been stronger...”

"We have a 13 and a 15-year-old with very different personalities, and different ways of expressing themselves. Before, things would often blow up in arguments and snarky attitudes when we just wanted to help or ask them to do something. My husband and I were both often left frustrated and angry. 

After THRIVE, our perspective has completely changed, and we're much more confident in how to parent in ways that work. Proof: our connection with each of the kids has never been stronger. This is huge - we can't thank you enough!"

~ Jessica Xavier, mom of 2

“Genuinely helped me and my family…”

“Before we found Ashley we experienced daily challenges, and I felt super stressed and depleted. THRIVE has given us real, easily digestible information and support that's genuinely helped me and my family through these tween years. In just a few days we started experiencing big changes in managing stress and emotional regulation. Thank you, Ashley!" 

~ Dani Sloat, mom of 2

It's no wonder clients are raving about my simple 4-part approach inside THRIVE!

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Parenting a t(w)een is the most challenging job on the planet.

Especially if you don't understand them, they don't listen to you or do what they need to do, and you're constantly worried for their safety and wellbeing.

If you've been stressed, angry, or worried lately, and you're ready for a strong connection built on trust, while knowing they're gonna be o.k. in school and in life then you already know...

You've got to learn to become their Teenage Guide, and guide them to build essential skills from the inside-out. They won't listen to you otherwise. This is where you have the most influence and control.

Think about it! When you were a teenager you likely thought your parent(s) were morons, they "wouldn't" or "couldn't" understand, and if they tried to tell you what to do they just pushed you away even more.

If they would've spoken your language, really seen you, and guided you on the path to who you were becoming things might have been way better for both of you!

Becoming their Teenage Guide, and guiding your t(w)een to build essential soul-to-systems skills is required to thrive in today's world long-term....and it's not that complicated. 

So, if you're  ⇩

Expecting your t(w)een to listen to you, do what they need to do, and build confidence without doing these things

You're missing the biggest opportunity to connect with, guide, and motivate them in ways that truly work.

I mean, has it worked so far? If you're like most parents who come to me for support, I doubt it.

But, that's o.k.! Seizing this opportunity to connect is as simple as approaching them and working with them in a new way.

And, you will start building confidence and connection between you once you learn this simple 4-part framework!

"Working with Ashley within the THRIVE program + community has fundamentally changed the dynamic in our house." 

Our interactions have shifted from frequently feeling unheard, disrespected, and frustrated to feeling understood, connected, and quick-to-reconcile when inevitable friction does occur. In particular, the “3 Selves” has been a vital tool in helping us better understand ourselves, each other, and how to communicate effectively – this has been invaluable in navigating the pre-teen and teen years. Ashley has been instrumental in replacing frustration with fun in our household and I couldn’t be more grateful!"

A strong relationship with your t(w)een doesn't just boost connection, it's also the #1 way you: 

  • ✨prevent dangerous (often impulsive) decision-making
  • ✨have influence in how they see and take care of themselves when they're by themselves
  • ✨foster self-drive and essential skill-building
  • ✨influence their future friends, partners, and life choices

✨Introducing the 

THRIVE Monthly Membership + Community:

Exclusive monthly membership with access to THRIVE + COMMUNITY for parents!

HOW IT WORKS WHEN YOU REGISTER: 

  • For each month you're a member, you get immediate access to...

  • Part 1: The SOIL: how to cultivate a healthy, confident relationship with parenting & yourself - the foundation of everything you want with and for them!

  • Part 2: The ROOTS: the 6 keys to building an unbreakable bond with your t(w)een + understanding them on a deep level + being able to speak their language

  • Part 3: The BRANCHES: The essential soul-to-systems toolkit (over 75+ audio, video, workbook tools, from emotional regulation and communication skills,  to executive function and social-emotional skills)

  • Part 4: The LEAVES: All 10 Teenage Guides: mini-digital step-by-step coaching guides focused on the top-10 challenges faced during the teen years (Low-Confidence, Low-Motivation, Emotional Breakdowns, Social Stress, Screen Stress, School Stress, Lying, Hiding, Defiance, & Disrespect)

Want even more gifts and support?

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MONTHLY MEMBERSHIP BONUSES

 Total Value = $2500+
BONUS 1 - VALUE $1200+

Bi-Monthly Group Coaching with Ashley

Each week, you'll get coached w/ Ashley in an intimate, safe, encouraging group setting.

Group Coaching Perks:

Go deeper inside THRIVE with group coaching, and get the validation and accountability that will sky-rocket your results in parenting your teen.

Each month Ashley will offer Q&A Group Coaching, as well as quarterly hot-topic workshop around challenges such as:

  • Screen stress
  • Body image support
  • Substance use
  • & more!

The Group Coaching space is a come-as-you-are community environment. If you don't want to be coached, you'll get support from witnessing others get support.

BONUS 2 - Value $999

Exclusive Access to the THRIVE online off-social media Community w/ daily check-ins from Ashley

Imagine just how much better it will feel to know you've got your built-in Village of other parents going through similar challenges, with extra support from. Ashley and the Teenage Guide team?

Inside the THRIVE Community you'll get:

  • Answers to your Questions M-F
  • Exclusive invite-only access to Ashley's Mindset Monday Recordings to start your week strong
  • Easy-to-use access to the off-Facebook Community + THRIVE + the latest resources and podcasts all in one space
BONUS 3 - VALUE $299

Teens who THRIVE:  Recorded Coaching for Your T(w)een

You know all that learning and integrating you're doing with THRIVE?! Well, now your t(w)een has access to similar material in a language they'll understand and receive! 

Audio Coaching Highlights:

  • Each day is a micro-coaching segment no longer than 10ish minutes
  • Your t(w)een will learn about what you're going through, and new ways to relate to and support themselves from the inside out
  • Social-emotional and executive-function coaching guiding them through common challenges they face day-in and day-out
  • New ways of communicating with you to foster understanding and co-collaboration
BONUS 4 - VALUE $99

The Teenage Guide to Finish (or Start) the School Year Strong

This contains my best, simplest emotional regulation, mindset, and study strategies EVERY t(w)een must know to feel prepared for everyday homework, exams, and finals.

TG Highlights:

  • Video coaching directly from me guiding them through the workbook step-by-step
  • Video exercises they can watch independently to get them practicing these mindset and study strategies while studying in real-time
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THRIVE Membership Community is like having your own supportive parenting village & expert in your back pocket as your 24/7!

The #1 Mistake Struggling Parents Keep Making:

When well-intentioned parents aren't getting the experience they want; their t(w)een breaks down, is disrespectful, or isn't able to take care of their responsibilities at school, they overcompensate and look 'to the experts' or buy something 'out there' to fix the problem instead of learning how to diagnose and fix it themselves in the simplest, most effective, compassionate way possible.

And you already know that no one knows (or loves) your t(w)een or you the way you do. 

Or worse! Mistake #2...

When they don’t have the experience they want, they become a boss with their t(w)een most often "because I said so". If you're looking for your t(w)een to be truly motivated, confident, kind, and responsible, being a 'boss' vs. a 'guide' is like trying fill a leaky bucket with more water!

Simply saying the words you want your t(w)een to hear while convinced you're 'right' 

will never lead to your t(w)een actually listening to you and becoming more confident or motivated.

Every time you do that, you're wasting energy and increasing stress and friction between you. In other words, you're wasting a LOT of water and never solving the problem!

Throwing money at the PROBLEM doesn’t work! Other struggling parents recognize their relationship with their t(w)een is suffering, and they think they could use help to get organized at home and for school. So, they go out and find a pricey therapist for their t(w)een because they are the ones who "need help". 

But the reality is, throwing money at the problem around our relationships and skills doesn’t make it go away! 

In fact, until you FACE the relationship head-on and do the work for yourself, too, the challenge with your t(w)een won't go away and it might even morph into something worse long-term.

And after 18 years as an educator and a coach, I know this to be true: 

Parenting is more about you than it is about them!

Your t(w)een NEEDS you to show up in this way. You work so hard, and both DESERVE to feel good...wouldn't it feel so good knowing what you're doing WORKS?!

How else do you expect change to happen for your t(w)een if you're not changing, too?

But when you keep “outsourcing” this important skill to someone or something else, you and your t(w)een never learn the skills that truly bring you closer so you can experience more success at school and in life.

So, what happens when the therapist, coach, or parenting book doesn't work to help your t(w)een? 

What happens when your t(w)een wants nothing to do with you or your brilliant ideas?

Or when the organization system you buy doesn't catch on in your home?

What then? It’s back to square one... minus the $$$ and time you spent.

But when you LEARN and MASTER the skills of what's inside The Teenage Tree & THRIVE - you take these skills with you for the rest of your lives! 

So, at this point you might be wondering... 'But, how am I supposed to DO IT ALL?!'

I'll let you in on a little secret: Inside THRIVE you'll learn my approach and toolkit that works (quite literally)

one step at a time...

Like a recipe, THRIVE includes my proven step-by-step approach

One you'll internalize it, tweak it to make it your own, and use over and over again to get your t(w)een to build confidence, motivation, and connection between you...for the rest of your lives.

So, imagine...

you add access to this step-by-step toolkit at your fingertips? Well, you don't have to imagine any longer...

Detailed, proven, step-by-step training that guides you through the 4-part process of supporting yourself, approaching your t(w)een and working with them to skill-build and solve almost any challenge.

Templates, Visuals, Video, Audio, PDF Workbooks, & Skill-trackers that takes the pressure and overwhelm out of processing, co-collaboration, and skill-building!

No more going at it alone crossing your fingers it might work. THRIVE is infused with my 18+ years of experience + the leading research in psychology, education, behavior change, neuroscience, executive function skill-building, and more! 

The THRIVE "Village" Community guides, supports, and encourages every member. When you engage with the community you'll have a built-in network of like-minded parents all over the world offering network of validation and inspiration, and showing up with the same purpose.

Because no matter what your history is, you and your t(w)een deserve the BEST moving forward.

 

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It's time to give your family the toolkit to THRIVE, just like it's done for these families...

“Before THRIVE I was anxious or angry a lot…”

“The teenage years freaked me out and I found myself catastrophizing scenarios with them a lot. Before THRIVE I was anxious and angry a lot, and now I have these tools everything is different. They're accessible and they WORK. I'm so grateful I found Ashley & THRIVE when I did! ”

~ S.C.

“It's easy to digest and it works!”

"Every parenting class I tried before left me with 1-2 take-aways, but I always struggled with putting it all together. Now I have everything in one place, it's easy to digest, and it works! Thank you Ashley!!"

~ Mary, KS

“It's such a game-changer...”

“My teen years were terrible, and as soon as my t(w)een started going through puberty I got nervous. Will history repeat itself? Thank goodness - NO! Having access to THRIVE has been a game-changer for our family!! 

~ M.B

Enroll Today in the THRIVE Monthly Membership + Community

Exclusive monthly membership with access to THRIVE + COMMUNITY for parents!

HOW IT WORKS WHEN YOU REGISTER: 

  • For each month you're a member, you get immediate access to...

  • Part 1: The SOIL: how to cultivate a healthy, confident relationship with parenting & yourself - the foundation of everything you want with and for them!

  • Part 2: The ROOTS: the 6 keys to building an unbreakable bond with your t(w)een + understanding them on a deep level + being able to speak their language

  • Part 3: The BRANCHES: The essential soul-to-systems toolkit (over 75+ audio, video, workbook tools, from emotional regulation and communication skills,  to executive function and social-emotional skills)

  • Part 4: The LEAVES: All 10 Teenage Guides: mini-digital step-by-step coaching guides focused on the top-10 challenges faced during the teen years (Low-Confidence, Low-Motivation, Emotional Breakdowns, Social Stress, Screen Stress, School Stress, Lying, Hiding, Defiance, & Disrespect)

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Inside THRIVE: Your 4-Part Framework for Grounded Parenting

Each part of THRIVE is intentionally designed to grow with you—layer by layer, root to leaf—so you can lead your family with confidence, and connection.

PART ONE: The Soil
Lay the foundation by building a deeply supportive relationship with yourself.
You’ll reconnect with your purpose, regulate your nervous system, and parent from presence—not pressure.

PART TWO: The Roots
Understand the inner world of your t(w)een and build an unbreakable bond.
You’ll master the emotional and developmental keys to relating, guiding, and staying connected—even as they pull away.

PART THREE: The Branches
Access your comprehensive, on-the-go Soul-to-Systems Toolkit with 100+ practical tools. From emotional regulation to time management, these resources support both you and your teen in real-time.

PART FOUR: The Leaves
Bring it all together with 10 step-by-step Teenage Guides for solving your biggest challenges. These coaching guides walk you through exactly how to approach your teen with clarity, compassion, and confidence.

From the roots to the real-life results—THRIVE is the full ecosystem your family needs to grow.

Because you and your teen deserve more than just “getting by.”

You both deserve to feel steady in yourselves, connected with each other, and confident navigating school and life.

And the truth? It doesn’t have to be complicated.

Ready for results like these?

“It's priceless!”

"There's a lot of information out there to help parents with teens...but I've found it overwhelming. THRIVE is simple, straightforward, and I know exactly how to solve a challenge problem in less than an hour. It's priceless!"

~ Therese W., mom of 2

“THRIVE is exactly what I needed…”

Ashley, THRIVE is exactly what I needed. I've been lost and searching for some concrete tools to help me parent my (ADHD) son. Thanks to the program and how easy it is to use, I'm actively practicing many of the tools and having daily wins. Learning how to self-regulate and how to get him to listen without us ending in a big argument has truly been life-changing!

~ Lauren F., mom of 3 

“I highly recommend!”

"I use the tools on a regular basis with my t(w)eens & highly recommend TG to any parent or teen who wants to build a healthy and strong connection with their teen that lasts. Thank you, Ashley!"

Jessica, mom of 2

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